Wednesday, 14 August 2013

How to dress up this monsoon?

After the blazing heat, I can feel the cool breeze brush across my face. Like every year, I let my soul embrace this weather as I know it will take me another year to do the same. I have been tumbling in and out and finally I decide to move out to take pleasure in the rainy season of this year.

Today’s fashion trends change according to the seasons and the same connotes for monsoons. As I walk, I see people wearing different attires that suits best in this weather, making me think to dress in the same when I move out again.

Let’s take a guide of what to include and what to drop from your monsoon wardrobe:

When you step out in rainy seasons, the road is enclosed with mud and muck, so it best to avoid denims and full-length trousers and to try on something three-fourths.

If you are wearing some body- hugging outfits and are completely drenched in rain, it makes you feel irritable and sticky, so it is essential to step out wearing free-fitting clothes.

Kurti's in amalgamation with leggings is an ideal choice to wear in monsoons as it allows your body to breathe in humid and sticky climate.

Foot Wears:

Dressing up with a perfect foot-wear can be problematic during rains and you are not sure what will work well along with it. Wearing a Flip flop fun will help you to walk smoothly and confidently on wet floors and will allow you to match it up with any dress you decide to wear.

If you are planning to go out for an evening coffee with your pals, then Crocs either in black or brown( avoid wearing light colours) are the most durable foot wears during rainy season as they are comfortable and can be used with any of your formal outfits.

Being in the 20th century, you might want to dress up as retro lass but baffled when it comes to foot wears. The best you can go on is for printed wedges in different designs and styles as it is well supported with heels making it comfortable while walking.

Set up your wardrobe during monsoons, fly like a free bird and let the cool breeze smoothen your face without being apprehensive.

Friday, 9 August 2013

Donate Organs, Save Life

An organised movement has always led tremendous support to a cause, it makes people aware about the grim situation that has been prevailing in our society and pushes them to come out of their domicile and join the bandwagon.

The new cause which has come up as initiated by TOI (Times of India) is to help in gifting life to others. The leading newspaper had organised various programmes, activities and events to make sure that people come in large number to support Organ Donation Day which was held on 6th August 2013. Times group, requested people to come in large numbers and to register themselves in www. I lead an initiative taken by the organisation to donate their organs after death.

India, being a religious country is always surrounded with numerous myths, fears and superstitions such as: "What if I donate a particular organ and I am born without it in my next birth? " This futile thought process makes people hesitant and narrow minded when it comes to donating organs. On the record, in India, only 1 percent Indians pledge to donate their organs in comparison to other countries in the world.

In our country, lakhs of people die every year because of the unavailability of organs for donation. People should understand that, by donating your organs you are performing the best karma of your life and you are not dead, instead you are still living by being a part of someone’s life.

According to the statics in India, till date, people from all walks of life be it actors, army men’s, common man only missing out the politicians  as they have “much more” better things to do, have supported this campaign which has resulted in more than 50,000 plus people in support.

I pledge to donate my organs.... and you do the same....

Saturday, 3 August 2013

Love : A Dangerous Ishq

She is twirling her hair while looking at me.....Is it an indication of love? She smiles, She laughs on my silly jokes,she compliments me every time.... I am sure she loves me. Let me make a move.... BOY :“I have developed some feelings for you, and I ‘Think’even you feel the same for me... I Love You... and want  to be with you for the rest of my life”..... GIRL : Pat the reply comes, “but I think you are just my friend... I have never developed such feelings for you.... Common we will remain friends forever.”

Anguish, pain, dejection, distress has now flown into the mind of the psyche lover. How can she snub me? If she doesn't love me, she can not fall in love with anybody else.... I will kill her.

Wait, the above scene is not from any film, it is also not a transcript of any book.... it is a projection of a psyche human which reverses his feelings into lunacy of Love. The person feels betrayed, rejected and does not want to confront the reality. He just wants to remain insane and wants to take hold of the person whom he claims to be in love.

Love cannot always be an ecstasy, a dreamy film of a charming person, at times it can be a dangerous ishq and life threatening.

Few days back, the scene written above was played into reality, a student from a prestigious university, JNU,had attempted to kill his lover and himself consumed poison to bring an end to his incomplete love story. Both the students were pursuing language course from JNU. The guy had fallen for the girl and when she did not reciprocate the same feeling, he thought of killing her forever.

Why love overpowers the mind and heart of a person? Why the rejection  cannot be taken? Why is it difficult to accept failures?

Brain is a complex organ, but if you make it work along with your heart,it can make it effortless for you to reach a conclusion.